Men need men. We function best when we have a small circle of very close connections with men who can love and support us and punch us in the mouth occasionally when we need correcting. We recommend that every dude has a handful of capable men to help him figure out how to be better. This is a worldwide movement. xxz
ways to get more Involved
LEARN THE RED9
The attitudes, actions, and attributes of mature masculinity. Learn More 🔺
- responsibility
- resourcefulness
- reverence
- energy
- engagement
- endurance
- discipline
- discernment
- distinction
RESPONSIBILITY
- He meets his own needs with integrity.
- Never a victim, never a villain. Never blames, never harms.
- Reliable. Follows through, keeps promises.
- Has boundaries. Knows who to let in, who to leave out.
- Admits wrongs and makes amends.
- Accepts things he can’t change, changes what he can.
RESOURCEFULNESS
- He leverages every available resource to max advantage.
- Recognizes himself as the resource. Increases his knowledge, talents and skills
- He masters tools that help him.
- Acquires and multiplies assets.
- Seeks and uses the keys of prosperity.
- Self-reliant and prepared for likely hardships.
REVERENCE
- He uses stillness and reflection to find peace and grow.
- Reflects on his mortality and seizes every moment of life.
- He is teachable.
- He forgives.
- He recognizes the sublime.
- He expresses appreciation.
ENERGY
- He burns premium fuel. Intentional about food and water.
- Vigorously active to extend strength and stamina.
- Judiciously uses supplements and medical treatments.
- He gets proper rest.
- Free from addiction.
- Creates positive energy with thoughts, words, and movement.
ENGAGEMENT
- He shows up fully present and focused.
- Works hard at home and on the job.
- Enjoys leisure and recreation: he can entertain and be entertained.
- Honors, creates and participates in traditions.
- He connects. He loves with listening and laughter.
- Assertively expresses thoughts and feelings. He is bold, honest, respectful.
ENDURANCE
- He trains his mind first.
- Keeps what he’s pursuing visible as written goals.
- Open to new approaches and adjusts when necessary.
- Patiently perseveres with fortitude and grit.
- Seeks and accepts support.
- Knows his limitations and quits only when he must.
DISCIPLINE
- Master of his time.
- Master of his money.
- Master of his environment.
- Master of his mood.
- Master of his actions.
- Master of his results.
DISCERNMENT
- He is self-aware of problematic thoughts, feelings, and tendencies.
- Observant of external patterns and recognizes truth.
- Has realistic expectations.
- Interprets stress objectively and rationally.
- He understands cause and effect.
- He seeks worthy mentors and heeds their wisdom.
DISTINCTION
- He is skilled with both people and things.
- Lives congruently with his beliefs.
- Respected by the respected. Trusted by the trusted.
- He shows up with original, characterizing strength: in word, appearance, behavior.
- Effectively leads others.
- Connected to a tribe of Red9 Alphas.
Alpha63 Assessment
Take a 63-question survey and compare your answers to other men based on the Red9: responsibility, resourcefulness, reverence, energy, engagement, endurance, discipline, discernment, and distinction. This is by no means any kind of scientific, diagnostic tool; it is an informal survey to help you reflect on your attitude, actions, and attributes. The report, however, is a very impressive and insightful tool. Take The Alpha63 🔺
Private FB Group for Men
Join with over 1,500 men worldwide to discuss growth, ask questions, get feedback on your struggles or challenges. Only members of this group will see what you post. A few of the guys here are my clients but most are not, and I don’t even know most of them, so no one will know we are working together. 🔺
Alpha Quorum Discord
Would you like to discuss things anonymously? Don’t wanna go public about low sex drive, what to do if you’ve been unfaithful, the rash on your scrotum or an anger problem? Discord is where you can select an anonymous username and share away. Topics include #books #masculinity #politics #finance #career #fitness #diet #spirituality #sobriety #localmanmeetups and many more. This is a fairly new platform for us to use so there aren’t as many people there. The benefit to this platform over Facebook is you can be anonymous. 🔺
Alpha Quorum Instagram
Get inspirational content in your feed, see highlights from podcasts and engage with other men here as well. 🔺
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Follow the founder and host of the Alpha Quorum and The Alpha Quorum Show podcast. Brad Singletary, LCSW is a licensed therapist who operates a thriving counseling and coaching practice out of Las Vegas, Nevada USA. 🔺
In person groups for men
The Alpha Quorum is running five in-person groups in Henderson, Nevada. The groups focus on all challenges that men may face including marriage, parenting, mental health, addiction recovery, divorce adjustment and career success. Click this blurb to get on a waiting list when there are openings. Not in the Las Vegas area? Click on the option below for video options for elite mastermind groups for men. 🔺
Video Groups for men
Meet with other men who want to be better. You might be completely broken, you might be a high performer who wants to fine-tune your life. There’s nothing like a group of men committed to meeting with you regularly to give you some honest feedback. Join us. 🔺
the Alpha360 challenge
A 60-day challenge for men to get seriously disciplined and create a change in attitude, actions, and attributes. 🔺
THE ALPHA QUORUM SHOW (iTUNES)
A podcast for men. This is the link to the AlphaQuorum show on iTunes/Apple Podcasts. This is high-value information for men all centered around growth in all aspects of life. Previous gusts have been Olympians, law enforcement officers, recovery coaches, therapists, psychologists, marriage and family therapists. Check this out and subscribe to our show! 🔺
the alpha quorum show (Spotify)
A podcast for men. This is the same as above just for Spotify. Check it out and subscribe! 🔺
the alpha quorum YouTube Channel
Most of the content here is audio and video of The Alpha Quorum Show, a podcast for men. Subscribe when you see what we are doing!! 🔺
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ways to get others more connected
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DONATE
This endeavor does not make money, it takes money. Your donation can help us with paid ads, pay for developers and designers, pay for tech tools we use, and can help programs we are currently putting together for men like the Betterment Fund (a tool scholarship for young professionals and apprentices or interns), counseling assistance for men who can’t otherwise access therapy services, etc. 🔺
VOLUNTEER YOUR TIME AND TALENTS
Be on the podcast, share your ideas in planning meetings and committees, help with creative projects, be on an advisory board, write, edit, produce content, assist with social media, etc. Click here to contribute. 🔺
Join the discussions and share insights with men online
Give men perspective about the questions they post in our Facebook group and Discord server. You can also contribute to the momentum by sharing your own questions and ask for feedback in your own life by sharing them in the Facebook group and anonymously in the Discord server. 🔺