DISTRACTIONS & DOUBT: A Case for Silence
Let me tell you about my day. I know that is a sentence that, coming from anyone but a girl you are actively trying to sleep with, instantly kills any desire to keep listening, but I promise that it’s relevant to your happiness, self confidence,...
Alphas Know How to Love
There are many contributors out there in the manosphere. They preach messages about six-pack abs and the ability to use a bow and arrow and they portray images of themselves in front of their Lamborghini’s and jets. That’s not necessarily our brand of masculinity.
An Alpha knows how to love.
THE WORK WILL NEVER BE DONE
What’s your job right now? What business do you need to be handling? Focusing at work, playing with your kids, getting the bill payments sent out? Dude, you have to be serious and intentional with every moment of your time. Get your $#!+ done. The substance of stress is unfinished WORK.
The 3 Options You Have When You’re Angry
THE 3 OPTIONS YOU HAVE WHEN YOU’RE ANGRY As I have worked with people over the last 20 years in a coaching capacity, I have found that one very common issue underlies people’s pain, stagnation, worry and failures: anger. I’m not talking about the kind of anger where...
When You Should Never Say “I Don’t Know”
t happened again today--twice--by two different people. There is no more counterfeit humility known to man than the use of the easy-out reply “I don’t know” when asked for an opinion. Two men did this today in my office and it put the nail in the...
How Not to Be a Typical Man
ou've heard it before. The sarcastic-toned critique from someone who is sick of your $#!+. After some discovery of you failings, the trash you didn't take out, the birthday you forgot, the overspending on some self-absorbed purchase--you get what...
take action instead of waiting to be acted upon
I wish I had learned this one earlier in life. Nobody cares about your feelings. The sooner you can accept this fact the better.Stop what you are doing right now and repeat this to yourself, “Nobody cares about my feelings.” Do it while staring in the mirror if it...